Questions & Answers – 33 – Should I give up my values to experience pleasure?

I am 22 years old and gay. I did not choose my orientation and I have accepted myself. But what bothers me is that I might not get the partner I deserve. I just don’t want the partner to be into random affairs with people because I don’t like having casual sex with people. I don’t believe in God or anything of a higher power but curiosity makes me knock on your door. What should I do now? Should I give up my value of not having sex with random people or wait because what I fear is disappointment?